Do Married Christians Need Guidance On Sex?

There seems to be quite a lot of interest and activity in regards to married Christian couples seeking to improve their sex life.

This begs the question, "do married Christians need guidance on sex?"

I don't believe that it is an issue of married Christians needing guidance on sex. Rather I believe that married Christians understand the importance of marriage, and the strong need to improve every aspect of married life.

One of those aspects is having a strong and positive sex life.

While it is true many Christians have saved themselves for marriage and may not have experience in casual sex, this is marital sex which involves much more, runs much deeper, and is not concerned about cheap thrills or quickie frills.

Marriage sex is a whole different animal.

I believe all married couples could probably use guidance on how to have a strong and fulfilling married sex life. But particular for Christians, there are questions which often need answering:

How do we have a strong intimate relationship with one another while including appreciating, and incorporating our love of God?

What are some aspects of sex which, as Christians, we should avoid?

How can we create a healthy Christian based sex life?

And of course there are many other "Christian specific" and general intimacy questions that Christians are interested in as well.

But for the common questions above, let's give those a look.

Including or incorporating God in your life of intimacy simply means acknowledging his presence and his amazing gift of sexual intimacy which he has provided. Understanding that it should be used as a celebration of the union between the two of you and your relationship with God.

Aspects of Christian sex which should be avoided include anything that may cause discomfort or harm towards one another. There are all kinds of opinions for positions and techniques as well. This is an area of research you and your spouse should dive into and find agreement on. There's no need to dive too deeply though. As long as you both are maintaining a healthy and safe sex life which focuses solely on the two of you (with appreciation towards God) then you are on the right path.

A healthy Christian based sex life is one where intimacy is celebrated often. That is, as often as is comfortable for the both of you. But never allow intimacy to become stagnant. Always keep it fresh and exciting. Discover new ways of celebrating the union between the two of you which will add variety to your sex life.

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